Finding Your
THE LOVE
meaning to
life?
A sermon preached by
Dr. William O. (Bud) Reeves
First United
January 24, 2010
Let’s start with a simple
question: What is the meaning of life?
Perhaps more importantly, what’s the meaning of your life? Does your existence have a purpose, or is it
just a random accumulation of chance occurrences? Is there a mission or a principle that drives
your life, that gets you out of bed in the morning, that keeps you focused, and
that gives you satisfaction?
Philosophers and theologians
have reflected on that question for years.
What is the meaning of life? Filmmaker Mel Brooks said, “Hope for the
best. Expect the worst. Life is a play; we’re unrehearsed.” The late humorist Lewis Grizzard wrote, “Life
is like a dogsled team. If you ain’t the
lead dog, the scenery never changes.”
The physicist Albert Einstein answered, “There are only two ways to live
your life. One is as though nothing is a
miracle. The other is as though
everything is a miracle.”[1]
How do we live our lives so
that they have some meaning? For
centuries the best minds have tried to figure out the one rule of life, the “first
principle” that is greater than all other principles, the “categorical
imperative”—an ethical mandate that can be applied in any given situation.
In Jesus’ time, the rabbis
energetically debated this same issue. One
day while he was teaching, a Jewish scribe asked Jesus his opinion on the
matter: “Which commandment is the first
of all?”[2]
In other words, which of the 600-plus
commandments in the Law of Moses is the most important to follow? Which one gives life meaning?
Jesus answered
with a two-part commandment that we have come to know as the “Great
Commandment”: “The first is, ‘Hear, O
This is the great commandment, the first principle of
Jesus, the categorical imperative of the Christ, the meaning of life in a nutshell. But what does it mean, really?
The first part of the Great Commandment is the basic
affirmation of faith of the Jewish people.
It is called the shema y’Isroel.
It can be found in Deuteronomy 6:4.
Jesus simply quotes it: “Hear, O
The love that everybody is
looking for is found in a relationship with God. You find that love by loving the Lord your
God with all your heart and soul and mind and strength.
Does
that sound like fun to you? Or does it
just sound exhausting? I don’t know if I
can do all that. So here’s the trick:
You don’t have to do it on your own. You
have help. The One you are supposed to love—the
Lord your God—already loves you. It’s
not a one-sided relationship. You don’t
have to earn his love; he loved you first.
He proved that in Jesus Christ. I
John 4 explains, “In this is love, not that we loved God but that he
loved us and sent his Son to be the atoning sacrifice for our sins.”[5]
When we commit ourselves to love God with
all our heart and soul and mind and strength, we find that all our love is
actually a response to the God who loved us first, before we were even
born. He has been wanting to love us and
be loved by us since the beginning of time.
Reflect on that, and you may just find your eyes a bit misty.
Several
years ago, Edward Farrell of
After catching up with him, Ed panted, "Uncle Seamus, you look very happy. Do you want to tell me why?"
The 80-year-old birthday boy turned around, and tears were washing down his face. "Yes, lad,” he said. “You see, the Father is fond o’ me. Ah, me Father is so very fond o’ me."[6] Isn’t that great? The Father is so very fond of you and me, so we can love him with all our heart and soul and mind and strength.
We can also love our neighbor as ourselves. This is the second half of the Great Commandment; it’s a quote from the Holiness Code in the Book of Leviticus—Judaism 101. But really it’s just the other side of the same coin of love. We love God, and we love God’s children with the same intensity with which we love ourselves. Most of the time we don’t have any trouble thinking pretty highly of ourselves, do we? But even if we are down on ourselves, all we have to do is think of how highly God esteems us, and then love our neighbor as God loves us. It all works out the same. In fact, the commandment Jesus gave to his disciples on the night before he died was to “love one another as I have loved you.”[7]
It’s all a piece of the same cloth—God loves us; we love
God; we love our neighbor; we love God by loving our neighbor.
So who is my neighbor?
A neighbor is anyone we have an opportunity to love in any
circumstance. A neighbor can be a family
member, a friend, a stranger, even an enemy.
A neighbor can be as far away as a starving child in a foreign country
who is fed by our contributions to a missionary. A neighbor can be Haitian devastated by the earthquake. A neighbor can be as near as the person who sits
at our table or shares our bed.
In his book, Sources
of Strength, President Jimmy Carter tells about talking with Eloy Cruz, a Cuban
pastor who had a great ministry with very poor immigrants from
John Roth was
attending a conference in the German city of
Almost
immediately they began to taunt the old man, shouting obscenities and making
humiliating references to his mental condition. Then one of the teens shook up a half-filled bottle
of beer and aimed the foamy spray directly into the old man's face. Without warning they began kicking his legs
with their heavy boots and punching him in the arms and face.
John Roth was
not trained in martial arts and was not particularly brave, but as a Christian,
he could not sit there and watch a neighbor get beat up. So he said a prayer for guidance and stood
up. He walked up to the old man and his
attackers. In German he called out, "Hans!
Hans, how are you? It's been such a long time since we've seen
each other!" He slipped between two of the surprised teenagers and helped
the old man up. He said, "Come sit
with me, Hans. We have so much to catch up on." And John half carried the old man to the back
of the subway car.
The teenagers
talked briefly among themselves, but they made no move. At the next stop, they got out. At the next stop, the old man got off,
mumbling a word of thanks.[9]
Love is kind of
scary sometimes. But love is our
mission. We’re talking about finding
your mission in life. Do you have a
mission in life? Do you know why God put
you on this planet? Try this: love the
Lord your God with all your heart and soul and mind and strength, and your
neighbor as yourself. Make that your
mission in life, and you will find meaning in life.
Victor Frankl
was one of the great thinkers of the 20th century when it came to
finding meaning in life. He was a
psychiatrist who wrote the book Man’s
Search for Meaning, based in part on his experiences in a Nazi
concentration camp in World War II. He
had already been researching and writing about the meaning of life when the
Nazis arrested him and stripped him of everything valuable in his world—his
home, his family, his possessions. They
even destroyed the manuscript of his book, which he had hidden in the lining of
his coat. Suddenly Victor Frankl was
confronted with the possibility that he would leave this world without a mark,
nothing significant to pass on in terms of descendants or contributions. His life might be ultimately meaningless.
A few days after
his arrest, the Nazis took Frankl’s clothes and gave him the dirty, worn-out
rags of a man who had been sent to the gas chamber. But inside the pocket of the ragged coat,
Frankl made a surprising discovery.
There was a single page torn out of a Hebrew prayer book, and on the
page was the shema y’Isroel: “Hear, O
Years later in his book,
Frankl reflected, “How should I have interpreted such a 'coincidence' other
than as a challenge to ‘live’ my thoughts instead of merely putting them on
paper? …There is nothing in the world
that would so effectively help one to survive even the worst conditions, as the
knowledge that there is a meaning in one's life. ...He who has a ‘why’ to live
for can bear almost any ‘how’."[10]
Love is why we live. Real love, Godly love, is more than an
emotion. It’s a mission to live with a
commitment to God and the neighbors in our midst. It’s a decision we make and make again and
make over every time we fall short throughout our spiritual journey, until we
are perfected in love in the presence of our heavenly Father. That’s why God created us—to live a life of
love.
There was an
article in Fast Company, a
business magazine, that told the story of David Kelley. He is the highly successful founder of Ideo,
one of the world’s premier design companies. He was also a professor at
For nine months
David Kelley went through the physical torture of chemotherapy, surgery,
radiation, mouth sores, nausea, the whole bit.
His goal in life was to avoid throwing up. The treatment wrecked his taste buds and took
his appetite, and he lost 40 pounds.
Kelley is
happily married and has one daughter. As he struggled through the difficult
emotions that come with this kind of experience, he discovered his reason to
live. Kelley said this about his
daughter: “At first, you think, ‘I don't want to miss her growing up.’ That's motivating, but not that motivating.
It's when you manage to get out of yourself and start thinking of her that you
get the resolve to continue. When you think, ‘I don't want her not to have a
father’—then you want to stay alive.”[11]
What gave
Kelley a reason to endure the suffering of his cancer treatment was not the
pleasure he would get out of experiencing life with his daughter, as wonderful
as that would be. Kelley realized that
what truly motivated him was the benefit he could bring to his daughter. What motivated Kelley at the deepest level was
a selfless sacrifice for another—love. That’s what gave him a reason to live,
because it would have been easier to die.
That’s what gave meaning to his life.
We were made
for this—to be a people of love. Jesus
calls us to remember the love we had when we first knelt at the foot of the
cross and gave our heart to him. Do you
remember that? Did you experience that?
Jesus asks us
to rekindle the flame that once burned in our hearts for God. Has it become more smoke than fire? He wants us to renew the passion we once felt
for our faith, or to make it hotter.
God made us to
be a community of compassion and caring for others. Jesus challenges us today to recast the
vision of being a community of faith in
Jesus says, “Love
the Lord your God with all your heart and soul and mind and strength. Love your neighbor as yourself.” This is the great commandment. This is your mission. This is the meaning of life. Amen!
[1] John Winokur, The Traveling Curmudgeon (Sasquatch Books, 2003)
[2] Mark 12:28.
[3] Mark 12:29-30.
[4] Eugene Peterson, The Message: The Bible in Contemporary Language (Colorade Springs: NavPress, 2002), p. 1835.
[5] I John 4:10.
[6] Brennan
Manning, The Wisdom of Tenderness (Harper
[7] John 13:35.
[8] Jimmy Carter, Sources of Strength, Meditations on Scripture for a Living Faith, Times Books, 1997, p. xvii.
[9] John D. Roth, "A Love Stronger Than Our Fears," Choosing Against War—A Christian View (Good Books, 2002), PreachingToday.com.
[10] Victor Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning, quoted in Leadership, Vol. 4, No. 3.
[11] Linda Tischler, "Ideo's David Kelley on
'Design Thinking,'" Fast Company (Feb, 2009), p. 80.